This morning, at 1:17 AM, I turned 36.
And weirdly enough, that number doesn’t scare me.
There are about 8 million things I wish I knew more about
and about 6 trillion things I would have done differently, but all in all, I’ve
had a pretty decent run :D
So, to celebrate my completion of 35 revolutions around the
sun here are 35 things you may or may not know about me. Some of which
have taken a full 35 years to learn.
In no particular order:
I have an
exceptionally good memory
It’s almost like things get burned into my mind and I can’t
let them go. And it’s not always really important. It’s the little
stuff like how my brother orders his sandwich at Subway (Meatball, extra
sauce, American Cheese, Mayo, Pickles), or how my Granny took her coffee (Black
with 2 teaspoons of honey), or how my friend Emily eats her pizza (Toppings
first – then scrape the cheese off and roll it up – then pick the fluffy part
of the crust off).
I feel more deeply
than I let on
I’m essentially a burnt marshmallow. You’re not going
to see a lot of emotion escape to the surface (thanks to #10) but I’m
practically goo on the inside.
I am a ‘Ride or
Die’
I’m a pretty intense ally. I will 100% match your
enthusiasm….Every.Single.Time. I will hold your earrings. I
will help you fight your way out. I will answer the phone at 3 am and
unlock the front door because you have nowhere else to go. I will help
you stalk the girl you think he’s cheating on you with. But…I will also force
the hard conversations. I will ask “What does that look like now?”
I will line out your options and make you choose a road to walk down.
I don’t function
well when I’m hungry…or tired
Y’all. Hangry is LEGIT an emotion. I feel
it. Deep within me. It’s taken me a LONG time to know that if I’m
reaching my limit I probably just need some French fries and a nap.
Thankfully I’m married to a man who also recognizes this…way before I do…and
can usually head my crazy off at the pass.
I have an
insatiable need to know.
I know it doesn’t affect me. I know it doesn’t
matter. I just want to know.
Yes….I AM
‘head-shrinking’ you
Look. I’m just being honest. As you’re talking
I’m about half listening and half trying to figure out your personality
quirks. I want to know how you work. If we talk for more than 30ish
minutes I can tell you if you’re an introvert or extrovert, what your love
language is, and how you are motivated. I will need this information
later….see #3.
I really do find
myself hilarious
Come on…you HAVE to give me this one. It’s basically
Kim 101. Rule #1 is I’m HILARIOUS. And it’s SUCH a sad story when
people are unaware of rule #1.
I know all the
lyrics in the universe, but don’t ask me about song title or artist
If you need that info, you should ask my brother!
I’m seriously
disappointed about the lack of choreographed musical numbers in my life
I mean…what’s a girl gotta do to get a little singing and
dancing on cars on the way to work? I feel like this will be my 50thbirthday
request….someone arrange a flash mob while I’m at the grocery store. (No,
I’m serious)
I trust you as far
as I can throw you
I’m pretty strong…but that’s still not very far. I am
going to try to figure you out before I give you any ammunition against me.
I need to know if you’re going to shoot me in the back the second I turn
around. I don’t enjoy being vulnerable. There are probably 3 people
in the known universe that I trust implicitly…..odds are, you’re not one of
them.
If you ask my
opinion I am going to give it to you….this is your warning
I’m not really a sugar-coater. I’m learning to speak
truth in love, but I’m still going to speak truth. If you’re looking for
someone to back your crazy idea, I may not be the one.
I read….a lot
For the last few years I’ve read 52 books a year. Yes,
that’s a book a week. Granted they weren’t all life changers, but I enjoy
the escape to another universe. I also think I like literature because
there’s no “Hurry up and wait.” It’s constant motion….one thing changing
to the next.
I get a little ADD
behind the wheel of the car
Sometimes that I forget that I look with my eyes and not the
entire car….
I get narcolepsy
in the passenger seat
I seriously have fallen asleep on the way to Ikea.
Which is only an hour away!
Sometimes, random
songs get stuck in my head and I just have to sing them.
You can ask the girls I work with. And it really could
be ANYTHING….from some crappy to 40 hit to an obscure Disney song. It
doesn’t matter. I think the only way to get it from bouncing around in my
head is to let it go. (See what I did there….HA…..see #7)
If I could only
eat one food for the rest of my life it would, hands down, be tacos
Y’all. Nothing more needs to be said about this.
Mexican food is a blessing. Be blessed.
I will not
discriminate against you because of race, religion, or sexual orientation…But I
will judge you if you’re female and your toes aren’t painted
This is probably my biggest pet peeve. It probably has
more to do with #26 than anything. And I know in the grand scheme of
things it doesn’t matter. But paint your freaking toes…
The first thing I
notice about people is their eyebrows
I know. This is weird. I’ve been told 11 billion
times how weird this is. But, alas. Here we are.
I still have my
wisdom teeth
Weird. Who’da thunk I’d have enough room in my mouth
for 4 extra teeth….
I don’t like to
eat alone…ever
I don’t mind hanging out at the house by myself. But
don’t ask me to go in public and have a meal alone. I just can’t do it.
I consider it the
highest honor to be part of your big life event
Make your wedding cake…I’d love to. Hold your hand and
remind you how badass you are while you’re having a baby….sure. Stand
beside you as you proclaim that this is the one forever and ever….of
course. I think this one is tied to #1 and #2 (heh….I said #2).
I have an
abnormally high pain tolerance…unless we’re talking about my toes.
Have back surgery on Monday and go back to work on
Friday. No problem! Have a small human cut out of me on Wednesday
and clean house on Saturday. Why not? Stub my toe on the coffee
table at my grandma’s house going to the bathroom. Scream like I’ve been
stabbed – fall to the ground and shake the whole house – and exclaim that “It’s
BROKEN!!!” Yeah…that happened. But in my defense – that toe is
STILL crooked – proving my point that it WAS broken (Thank you very much,
Mema)
I can pop my
sternum
Your sternum is that hard bone in the middle of your chest
that your ribs connect to. Fun Fact: It’s actually 3 different bones. I
have no idea why, or how I became aware of this, but every now and then I can
get the joint between the top bone (Manubrium) and the second
bone (Body) to pop. (And, yes, it grosses EVERYONE out)
I don’t like to
hug…but not for the reasons you might think
I’m tall. If you’ve met me you know this. I
stand at about 6’2”. Which means if I’m going to hug you, a normal sized
female, I’m going to smother you with my boobs. It’s just a fact. I
don’t like this….you don’t like this…people walking by don’t like this….it’s
just uncomfortable for everyone. Also see #10.
I hate feet!
I don’t know why. I just don’t like them. Putting
your feet on me is a sure fire way to ensure that I will NEVER speak to you
again.
Don’t see a movie
with me unless you’re ready for a running commentary. No, I’m serious.
Again, see #7. But really, I think I’m just too
ADD. I can’t have all these un-shared thoughts bouncing around in my head
for 2+ hours. I just can’t. I need to let them out. Now…they
may be remarks on a characters appearance….wondering where she got those
shoes….wanting that pineapple cup….thinking that man (who looks remarkably
like my husband) is smokin’ hawt….but whatever I think is going to come
flying out of my mouth. At least I’ve been nice enough to warn you
beforehand!
My mind is in the
gutter….Always….No matter what….
I’ve tried to work on this, but it’s hard….heh….SO
HARD…..heh
I want to be given
a 24 hour notice before I die….so I can eat my weight in Krispy Kreme Doughnuts
I mean….is there anything more amazing? I may just
want to ride the conveyor under the glaze waterfall. Seriously, this is
the stuff dreams are made of!
I’m crafty, not
creative.
Show me a picture and I can figure out how to do that.
Give me a blank canvas and tell me to create….I’m screwed.
I have a
lisp. It’s not enough to notice in normal day to day life, but gets worse
when I’m tired….or tipsy.
I can confirm that it’s bad enough that my talk to text
can’t understand me unless I’ve had a cup of coffee...
My natural
schedule is 10 am to 3 am
I am a night owl by nature – and an early morning riser
because the rest of the world seems to think that all business needs to take
place at the butt crack of dawn.
My 2 year goal is
to do a half Ironman.
Yeah. You heard me. IRON. MAN. This
inspiration comes on the heels of watching my former Crossfit coach compete in
a FULL Ironman shortly after being diagnosed with RA. I don’t imagine
that this road is going to be easy, but I’m ready to NOT give up on something
and actually FINISH.
We’ll see how that goes…
I really want to
be pretty, but it seems like SO. MUCH. WORK.
I can either have full make up or have my hair fixed.
I can’t do both. Dammit Jim, I’m an accountant, not a magician
I’m a
Student….again
Apparently I’m a glutton for punishment…and have enrolled to
get my Master’s Degree. Because you know what goes with a nice Bachelor’s
in Psychology….a Master’s in Accounting.
I think there’s a
better way.
It doesn’t matter what it is. But you’ll catch me
saying “There’s got to be a better way.” Granted, this statement has been
to my detriment at a few jobs. Thankfully my current boss just listens
and lets me rant and even lets me try out a few of my crazy ideas.
Sometimes they work. Sometimes there’s an even better way than my better
way. Sometimes you just need to try.
So. Kudos to you if you got to the end of this.
In parting I’ll leave you with some birthday wisdom (Which is WAY better
than a birthday suit….LOL)
Figure out who you are. Know WHOSE you are. Be
the friend you want to have. Buy coffee for the guy in line behind
you. Eat the cake. Laugh fully (even if you snort). Be a
better remember-er (even if you have to set a reminder in your phone).
Pray more. Text the person you’re thinking about. Love even if it
hurts.